TV actress Shama Sikander gives an interview to Asianet Newsable in which she discusses her ‘life after marriage,’ her relationship with her husband James Milliron, and other topics. At a low-key ceremony in Goa in March 2022, Shama and James, her long-term partner, exchanged vows and became husband and wife.
Shama Sikander, who has been in a number of popular television series, including “Baal Veer,” “Ye Meri Life Hai,” and others, regularly amazes her fans with the photographs and videos she posts to Instagram. Despite the fact that internet sensation Shama has not been seen in front of a live audience for quite some time, she nonetheless maintains a sizable following. In addition to her work on television, Shama has had roles in a number of Bollywood films, including “Prem Aggan” and “Mann.” She has roles in the films “Ansh: The Deadly Part,” “Contract,” and “Bypass Road” in which she played minor characters. After making her debut in “Dhoom Dhadaka,” Shama went on to star in “Shunyaa” and “Seven.”
Now turning our attention to the actress’s private life, she tied the knot with James Milliron on March 14, 2022 in the Indian state of Goa. James is an American businessman who was born and raised in Dubai, United Arab Emirates. Shama Sikander expressed the following in reference to her marriage to James: “My relationship with my husband is full of love, understanding, and kindness.” We are two separate people who are complete on the inside, and we are not missing anything. We did not meet because we were searching for our other half; rather, we did so because we were both complete, and we desired to give the overflowing love that we both have inside us to ourselves before sharing that joy and all of that love with our partner. This is how we came to complete each other. Both of us are deeply in love with ourselves as well as with the other.
Sharma, when asked about the fact that she and her husband had different viewpoints on certain topics, responded by saying, “We are very kind to each other, we are very understanding, and very compensational.” We share an incredible connection that, in all honesty, cannot be adequately described; rather, it must be experienced to be believed. Because of this, whenever he is around, you will notice that I am radiant with joy.
“He (James) wants to share everything with me, and I want to offer him my full self. I want to share everything with him, and he wants to share everything with me. Because he wants to supply me with the same, it can be said that the emotion is mutual from both sides; because this is something that happens very infrequently, I would say that my relationship with him is one that is incredibly blessed and successful. It’s not like we don’t have any misunderstandings or, I wouldn’t say misunderstandings but any differences of opinions, but because of the love and respect that we have for each other, they are taken very very positively and things flow very well between us,” she added. “We look forward for each day that we are together, and it’s not like we don’t have any misunderstandings or, I wouldn’t say misunderstandings but any differences of opinions.”
The young people who rush into a relationship or marriage and then come to regret their decision, to whom the actress offered some relationship advise, “I just want to say that before getting into any relationship, or before getting into a marriage, you must find yourself and must invest your time and energy into finding your true self, your true essence, and finding that love for yourself that you are okay with your own company, you are in love with everything that you do, you find yourself in the most healthy mental stages, you should not need another person to complete you, you should be complete within you and the love that you have for yourself, and the love that you have for the person that you
In reference to her marriage to James, she offered the following explanation: “That’s what happened to me and my husband; we were both so full of love for ourselves, that we attracted each other.” Because of this, our relationship is so wonderful, harmonious, and uncomplicated. Therefore, if you desire to have that and you long for it, you are not alone in feeling that way; I’m sure everyone feels that way. It would be in your best interest to spend some time figuring out who you really are, what you really want in life, what your aspirations and desires are, and what is most important to you. Once you’ve done that, you shouldn’t make any concessions or sacrifices when it comes to the things that are most important to you.
The actress also discusses the role that self-worth plays in romantic relationships and attraction, saying, “Find your own worth, and then you will attract a partner who will also love all these things about you, not try to take that away from you, but instead help you build all of your dreams, and help you feel more loved and protected and safe and in love with yourself, not the other way around.” If you want to fall in love with anyone else, you have to learn to love yourself first since that is the only way to guarantee that it will happen. The connection shouldn’t be driven by necessity but rather by want. Need-based relationships will never succeed; I’ve seen this time and time again, and the people involved in them are miserable for as long as the relationship lasts. This is because when you try to use another human being to fulfil your own needs, that other human being will never be enough.
“This person might or might not be the person who can satisfy that need for you, because the only person who can satisfy your wants is you; therefore, you should satisfy your needs before meeting that person. You can do that, I’ve done that in my life so you can do that, be fearless in that, and have courage in that, and I wish you all love and the best in your future, in your relationship,” she went on to say. “So once you figure out a way to make your needs meet on your own, you will not need another person, and you can do that, I’ve done that in my life so you can do that,” she said.
“Never compromise on your relationship because this is something that gives you so much joy, this is something that you spend so much of your time into, and your partner is somebody who knows you intimately, and so please do not compromise on that,” says Shama Sikander. “Never compromise on your relationship because this is something that gives you so much joy, this is something that you spend so much of your time into.” You don’t have to compromise in a relationship; that’s the incorrect word to use when referring to a couple’s dynamic. Please don’t say that, because it irritates me when people claim that you have to compromise in a relationship. A partnership is not one in which you are required to make concessions. You should be able to gladly and voluntarily do it for your partner without feeling the need to make any concessions… That kind of harmonious connection is what I hope each and every one of you finds in your lives.